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SOFT & SECURE

A 12-week live & evergreen program for women ready to embody their empowered feminine energy and start attracting healthy love and empowered masculine partners.

This is the program to get you ready to be ready for healthy love, from the inside out.

If you feel called, join us.

LEARN ABOUT THE 9 MODULE PROGRAM

HAVE YOU EVER FELT LIKE...

You’re a high-achieving, driven woman who craves to be in her feminine energy but often feels stuck in your guarded, inhibited, closed masculine energy.
You keep finding yourself in a pattern of attracting the same type of man in a different body - usually emotionally unavailable men who breadcrumb you, or men who you feel like you have to mother and pull along - and you aren’t sure why, or how to break the cycle.
You’re tired of feeling like you’re chasing love and are ready to experience healthy, empowered masculine partners pursuing you.
You’ve been to therapy or tried other healing methods, and consider yourself a self-aware person, but can’t figure out why it doesn’t feel like your dating and relationship experience is changing, despite trying everything you can.
You may have some trauma or emotional wounding in your past from childhood or past relationships that you know effects how you view love, how open you are to it, and your beliefs about the masculine and (most importantly) yourself.
You’re ready to do the deep-dive healing work to break these cycles and become your most empowered feminine, warm, authentic, open-to-healthy-love, self.

I know how you feel...

You desire a partner who takes the lead & initiative, but deep down you're struggling with letting go of control and being able to receive that kind of love and energy for yourself.
Despite going to therapy & reading the books, dating still feels full of ups & downs and drama. You find yourself feeling like you need to play hard-to-get in relationships or pretend not to care, chase and earn love.
You feel like you have all this stuck energy in your body from the pain, the trauma or the let downs... and you want to release it but you're not sure how.
You know you have inner masculine and feminine energy wounds from childhood or past relationships but aren't sure how to meet or heal them. You may have trouble receiving love, letting others be there for you, or feeling like you don't have to anxiously chase or earn love.

WELL THE GOOD NEWS IS...

You get to feel confident and secure while dating, as you embody your empowered feminine energy - one where you feel relaxed, playful, warm, and uninhibited - expressing who you truly are when you’re not in protection mode.
You can shift into a new paradigm with the masculine, attracting healthy and empowered masculine men and co-creating healthy love (hint: this has NOTHING to do with different 'action' and everything to do with YOU shifting internally, which will create a different life experience for you!)
You can create a relationship someday, whether it is now or much later, full of intimacy, love, closeness, safety, polarity (aka chemistry, lust and 'I want to jump your bones energy!') You can break these dating and relationship patterns and create a healthy, fun dating experience where you feel relaxed and excited to have more fun dating.
You can, through somatic based healing practices, release the weight of that past wounding you’ve been carrying around, and start to feel lighter, freer and open to life again!

INTRODUCING....

WHAT IS IT?

A COMBINATION OF MY PSYCHOLOGY BACKGROUND, LAW OF ATTRACTION, SOMATIC HEALING, SEX & INTIMACY TRAINING AND POLARITY WORK HAS CREATED THIS TRANSFORMATIONAL PROGRAM ON BEING IN YOUR EMPOWERED FEMININE ENERGY.

This is a 12-week LIVE group program with a sequential plan to support you in becoming your most empowered feminine self. These 12 weeks are designed to immerse you into feminine energy healing and embodiment work with live group Q&A support weekly.
Upon the beginning of the program, you’ll be given access to the first of 9 pre-recorded video modules, each about 90 minutes. You will be able to watch 1-2 videos per week and implement the homework from them. Every Tuesday at 1 PM Central, we’ll have a live Q&A. If you can’t join live, you can submit your questions through a form, and I’ll include a recorded answer for you in the replay video session I’ll email you.
For all 12 Q&A sessions, you will fill out your questions in a form prior to the call, and when we all meet on zoom we will cover all the questions and do hot-seat video coaching when needed!
You'll be supported and guided every step of the way, starting from the get-go with your free 30-minute 1:1 call.

✨The Black Friday deal✨

The Black Friday offer upgrades your live support from 8 weeks to 12 weeks,
plus a bonus 30-minute 1:1 kick-off call.

What's included?

Soft & Secure can teach you how to make the following shifts:

How to create internal safety & security

so that you feel confident to let down your guard, and reveal your softened, open feminine essence.
How to honor, heal and alchemize

those inner masculine & feminine energy wounds that keep you in protection mode or cause you to sink into wounded feminine codependent-like, anxious, tendencies.
How to shift into a new paradigm with the masculine

attracting healthy and empowered masculine men (hint: this has NOTHING to do with different 'action' and everything to do with YOU shifting internally, which will create a different life experience for you!)
Creating amazing confidence in yourself

exactly as you are, feeling secure to create, to express and speak up for yourself, setting boundaries in an empowering and detached way, learning to see yourself (the feminine) the way the masculine sees you (this will BLOW your mind!) and how to attract the healthiest, most aligned empowered masculine partner for you.

WHO YOU CAN BECOME AS A RESULT OF THIS PROGRAM:

You become the kind of woman who trusts herself so much that she's able to soften, melt and open up to life again.

You feel so internally secure that you're able to open to love, knowing there is risk but trusting yourself to handle it. You feel free to be expressive, to speak your needs, set boundaries with ease in a feminine way.

You are able to discern healthy versus wounded partners, and see when people are in their wounded or empowered energies (including yourself), which allows you to shift yourself into a more empowered state. You speak to yourself with confidence, kindness and compassion.

You feel free to share your playful, fun, sexy, liberated, wild and fierce feminine with the world. You deeply know the value you bring as a partner and hold clear standards and boundaries for who you allow into your energy.

You trust men, you trust the universe, you trust yourself. You feel confident to go after your goals, to be open to love, and to express yourself, because you know you can handle any feeling or emotion that may come. You have the tools and knowledge to forevermore step into the empowered feminine woman inside of you.

I WANT THAT - COUNT ME IN!

The feminine energy embodiment program

A combination of my psychology background, law of attraction, somatic healing, sex & intimacy training and polarity work has created this transformational program on being in your empowered feminine energy.

SAY NO MORE! I'M IN!

SOFT & SECURE IS FOR YOU IF

You want to take this course for YOURSELF. You want to feel confidence and radiant for YOURSELF and able to be your fully expressed, feminine self every day. You want to feel secure, grounded, free to play and express, and confident out in the world (and of course, that will translate into your dating and relationship world too!)
You desire to melt into your empowered feminine radiance, but you feel stuck in your masculine energy. You feel guarded, closed off, and cold despite trying to open more to love.
You desire a partner who takes the lead & initiative, but deep down you're struggling with letting go of control and being able to receive that kind of love and energy for yourself.
You desire to create more emotional (and/or physical) intimacy, but it feels so scary and vulnerable. You find yourself avoiding vulnerability or even feeling your own feelings, despite desperately desiring to open up to your partner or other significant people in your life.
You feel like you have all this stuck energy in your body from the pain, the trauma or the let downs... and you want to release it but you're not sure how.
You desire to feel confident, radiant, free. Liberated. Free to be totally yourself and loved wholly and completely for it.
You know your self-talk isn't the best, but you're not sure how to shift it or why you're so harsh / critical to yourself. You're ready to heal the inner wounds that are creating drama and insecurity inside you and speak to yourself in loving and empowering ways.
You know you have inner masculine and feminine energy wounds from childhood but aren't sure how to meet or heal them. You may have trouble receiving love, letting others be there for you, or feeling like you don't have to chase or earn love.
You desire to have an empowered masculine partner, and know that you have some healing work to do to be able to do to be able to trust the masculine again (and/or yourself again)
You desire a relationship someday, whether it is now or much later, full of intimacy, love, closeness, safety, polarity (aka chemistry, lust and I want to jump your bones energy!).
You find yourself feeling like you need to play hard -to-get in relationships or pretend not to care, chase and earn love. You're ready to leave the drama behind and create healthy, nourishing love with yourself and with your(future or current) partner.

JOIN NOW

It's not for you if

You're looking to simply watch video modules and experience transformation. This program requires you to play with somatic-based tools - like breathwork, movement & sacred rage practices. We transform by shifting who we BE in the world - which means we have to bring the tranings from mind to body - this is where somatic practices and homework you are guided to do outside of the video modules are key.
You expect a fast and easy transformation. This work can feel intense at times - you learn to live with your heart wide open. That means, you must open your heart 😉 which can feel big and intensely emotional at times. Not to worry, I'm guiding you on how to lead and hold yourself through this, whilst also not making your emotions or messiness wrong. You'll learn that emotions are a gift and you're right on track.
You're looking for a program or a coach to save you. The key to seeing success in any program is the ability to lead yourself. You are responsible for how you show up in this container and how you lead yourself outside of it. You are the key to your own healing. This program is designed to help you liberate and free yourself, through leading yourself.
You have it in you already.

Are you ready for the transformation?

I'M READY TO DO THE WORK

They've been transformed...

A 12-week program for...

Women who are ready to melt into their feminine radiance

Finally FEEL the experience their own innate feminine magnetism...

Feel confident & sexy coming alive inside their bodies...

Heal their inner masculine & feminine energy wounds

Let down their guarded masculine shield...

Create nourishing and supportive internal peace and security...

And open and soften their hearts to love, both from themselves & from the masculine

JOIN NOW

WHAT'S INSIDE THE PROGRAM

MODULE 1

Understanding masculine & feminine energy, both wounded and empowered, in yourself and in others.

Learning the principles of Empowered Feminine Radiance. You'll learn to discern healthy versus wounded masculine energy, whose safe to open to, and how to recognize and shift your own inner wounded tendencies, so you can play more in your empowered feminine than ever before.

MODULE 2

Selling yourself on yourself, and falling madly in love with the woman you are.

Insecurities, quirks, weirdness, you name it...
when YOU internally accept and love all these parts of you, the masculine will do the same.

You get to love yourself and be loved in your absolute fullness.

MODULE 3

Becoming disinhibited: allowing your most expressed, sexy, authentic, magnetic feminine woman free and coming alive inside your body.

The feminine is soft and open... she's also wild and free. What holds you back from speaking up, being playful and silly, liberating your sacred sexuality, revealing your fierceness and all the layers of your feminine essence? We're finding out and smashing what's holding you back.

MODULE 4

Graduating from wounded feminine to empowered feminine energy

Relieving wounded feminine tendencies - creating security and internal peace and self-validation.

MODULE 5

Softening your masculine protection tendencies and allowing your feminine radiance to shine.

Learning to trust men again and heal resentment towards the collecting masculine. Dropping mothering tendencies and coming back to your feminine magnetism.

MODULE 6

Deeply embodying the empowered feminine woman in her full magnetism and radiance.

Putting it all together, you'll learn how to walk in this magnetic, feminine radiance.

BONUS MODULE

The Soft & Secure Framework: understand the principles of the Soft & Secure Framework

From the healing modalities we use, to outlining the inner journey you’re about to take into embodying your empowered feminine energy and consciously dating in healthy, drama-free ways.

BONUS MODULE

The key to attracting more and more aligned, healthy masculine partners to you

Energetic standards. Learn how to set and hold the standards you desire in a partner, in a way that the Universe delivers. As well as, how to date from an empowered feminine, secure, magnetic energy.

BONUS MODULE

Healing your relationship to the masculine

Understand how to start healing your relationship to the masculine, and the father wound, so that you can open up to receive the goodness of the masculine again.

✨BONUS✨
You'll start your journey with a free 30-minute 1:1 kick-off call, and an upgrade for the live support session from 8 weeks to 12 weeks!

You'll receive a bonus training on how to set boundaries & communicate your needs & desires in an empowered feminine way - without feeling controlling or bossy.

You'll learn how to share how you feel, what you need, and how to speak to the empowered masculine core of your man so that he can really hear you and knows how to win with you (AKA how to meet your needs / boundaries easily.)

You'll learn exactly how to communicate confidently, using variations of a script for you to play with making your own, and understand why this style of communication is healthy and effective.

⬇️ BUT THERE'S MORE ⬇️

New bonus audio trainings are regularly added to the portal on...
⚪️ How to Navigate Conflicts After an Abusive or Unhealthy Relationship
⚪️ Guided Somatic Release Session to help you let go of unhealthy relationships and connections through body-based healing
⚪️ And Audio Tracks for Walks or Workouts to help you reprogram your mind, surrender, detach, and allow healthy partners to come into your life

Exclusive WhatsApp Group Chat for Soft & Secure Members

Join our private client-only WhatsApp group — a warm, supportive space to:

Share your reflections as you move through the program
Connect with other women on the same healing journey
Give and receive support between live Q&A calls
Get spontaneous coaching downloads, reminders & updates from your mentor

This group is not for live coaching, but a safe space to connect, reflect, and be supported by each other.

Access is available during your program participation.
Simply provide your WhatsApp number after joining to be added!

MORE DETAILS?

WHERE:

INSTANT ACESS. 9 modules have been pre-recorded and upon purchase, you will receive instant access to the first few modules! Including your bonus, meditations, activations, and somatic trainings.

You'll be able to enjoy your portal a full year!
During this one year of access, to your portal modules are shared in the perfect order to support you in becoming the healthiest, most empowered feminine woman you have ever been. You'll also learn about energetics for attracting healthy partners, holding energetic standards for the type of partners you attract, and so much more. There will be weekly Q&A group Zoom support calls for up to 60 minutes with Bri directly, so you'll have time and space to have your support questions answered.

ENROLLMENT BONUS:

Get 12 LIVE Q&A group calls each week.
+ a free 30-minute 1:1 call.

When you sign up for Soft & Secure, you also get free lifetime access to Entering Your Soft Girl Era: Embracing Your Feminine Energy & Attracting Healthy Love!

This course was taught for free for those who came live, and 3 days later everyone was removed from the group and the course became a paid offer for those who wanted to keep the material.

You'll see these trainings in a tab inside absolutely FREE as a bonus for taking this course - once inside, you'll see 3 video trainings for you to dive into immediately!

ARE YOU READY?

YES, I'M READY

Here's what they say...

Hi, I'm Bri

I’d never wanted to close my heart and refuse to open it ever again more.

The pain that surfaced within me after leaving a narcissistic and abusive relationship was the worst I’d ever felt in my life.

I’ll never forget the first few days of being home after leaving him, still feeling confused about whether I was the one who was messed up.

I watched my mothers eyes fill with tears after I told her story after story, still tentatively, and she said with a broken voice “oh honey, no, that’s not normal..”

Seeing her pain as she saw me in pain was the first time I could recognize the pain I was truly in.

When you’re so used to being gaslit, you start to gaslight yourself. You don’t trust your own feelings are valid or real anymore.

But what she reflected to me woke me up, and I realized the pain I’d been carrying. I realized why I'd been feeling so anxious, spiraling, feeling flooded and numb all at once.

I was terrified I would never trust love or men again.

On top of that, I was terrified that this could happen again, and thought I may never be able to trust men again. I felt inhibited and guarded, lost about who I was, and feeling like I could never really exhale and feel safe.

Every once of my body wanted to close my heart off for good.

After that experience, my masculine shield protected me like a solider. It was comforting, it kept me safe… but at some point I realized…it also kept me from truly healing, releasing all this pain and trauma, and being able to open to love again.

I’ve always been the type of heart that wants to give, give, give and loves hard. Maybe you relate. And I didn’t want to lose that. But I knew there had to be a way to love hard & still feel safe, healthy & secure. I just didn’t know what that looked like yet at that time.

The journey to healing took truly the last 2 years. About 2 years of growth, learning, LOTS of unlearning, self love, compassion & grace later….

I got a tattoo “heart wide open” as a commitment to myself to keep my heart cracked wide open to love.

It took nearly 2 years to really open my heart to falling in love again

And to get there, I utilized what I now call my Soft & Secure Feminine Energy healthy and embodiment framework - what you'll be immersing into in this group program as the roadmap to healing and embodying your most empowered feminine, confident energy.

In that devoted healing & rising period, I transformed.

First fell madly, deeply, and truly in love with myself.

I let myself be enough.
I learned to honor and feel my emotions.
To meet myself in my pain and pour LOVE over myself.
To trust myself and validate how I feel.
To heal my wounds of abandonment, rejection, codependency, anxiously attaching
To speak up for my needs & desires, and do it from my softened feminine energy
To advocate for my own boundaries.
To show people how I desire to be loved, and holding that standard.
I learned to walk away when it wasn’t being met, and trust someone even more aligned was coming.
I learned to OWN my value as a woman, a feminine being, a friend, a partner, a lover. I finally saw what I brought to the table and started to see my own innate worthiness and magnetism.

Most of all I learned to trust myself.

And slowly but all at once, began to sink into my feminine energy and watch myself magnetize all the goodness in life - the friends, the love, the moments, the abundance, the pleasure. It was all happening as I came home to my empowered feminine, authentic self.

FEEL FREE TO BE MORE WILD, COURAGEOUS AND BOLD

I was no longer trapped in an inhibited shell in my body… but instead expressive, playful, open to life, secure in myself, detached from outcomes, and yet receiving everything I desired.

And that’s all I need to keep my big, beautiful heart open and pouring out the love she craves to give.

I also trusted that as I hold my standards for the kind of love I choose, the Universe will send me the divine equivalent in a partner.

Sure enough, after these shifts (that you're about to learn and embody in Soft & Secure) I left the drama paradigm of dating, and began attracting healthy, empowered masculine potential partners. I was in awe of how much more aligned the men who came onto my path were, more and more impressive. At that point, as I always tell my clients when they inevitably get to this place, it's now about goodness of fit: these people are mostly empowered and healthy, so which connection feels the most secure, alive and fun?

The Universe did not disappoint. ☺️ And while I don’t share much about this part of my life publicly (because it’s really lovely to have this part of my life be just for me, not in the online space) - it’s continually being & evolving into MORE of everything I’ve desired. Beyond what I envisioned for myself. It is a direct testament to the inner work I did to be able to draw in, and hold, healthy, thriving relationships.

I hope that if you’re reading this and have a similar background feeling stuck, anxious or closed off to love and your feminine energy, that this gives you hope and courage to know you can have this, too. I hope it inspires you to fall in love with yourself.

I pray that you fight to experience deep, unconditional love with YOURSELF, and you see that YOU are truly the first love of your life (and of course, there gets to be your divine, juicy, masculine partner too 😉)

I hope you decide to be brave heal your relationship with YOU and your feminine.

So you can one day open your heart to a new love, and leave the pain in the past.

And meet the most empowered, courageous, loving, generous, heart-wide-open feminine woman inside you. 🤍

This is exactly what we’re doing in this program… are you in?

I WANT CHANGE

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BEST VALUE

$999

(One time payment)

Access to MODULE 1 to 9, (over 12 hours of content). All of which come with tangible homework and actionable practices to support the embodiment of this work.
12 LIVE Q&A group calls each week.
+ 1 Bonus training on how to set boundaries in an empowered feminine way - without feeling controlling or bossy.
BONUS: 3 video trainings on Soft Girl Era

SAVE $126

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EXTENDED PLAN

3X$375

(3 installments of $375)

MODULE 1 to 9, (over 12 hours of content). All of which come with tangible homework and actionable practices to support the embodiment of this work.
12 LIVE Q&A group calls each week.
+ 1 Bonus training on how to set boundaries in an empowered feminine way - without feeling controlling or bossy.
BONUS: 3 video trainings on Soft Girl Era

JOIN NOW!

Here's what they say...

The reality is: nothing changes if nothing changes. if you're truly ready to break these dating and relationship patterns, do the deep inner healing you've been avoiding, and step into your most empowered feminine energy... then let's do this. Enroll and secure your spot today and let's make this happen for you.

I NEED CHANGE

FAQ

What guarantees do you have?

There are no guarantees in working together. You will absolutely get what you put into this container. My most successful clients (who come from lots of repressed emotions, and past unhealthy relationships who get to a place of attracting healthy, empowered partners, into healthy committed relationships, feeling confidently in their feminine) are ALWAYS those who complete the whole course, the accompanied homework, and show up prepared to the Q&A calls with questions, knowing what they desire support with. They are all IN inside the container and take full responsibility for engaging with the tools, resources and support the course container offers and challenging themselves. If you're a driven woman whose committed to her growth - you can thrive in this space. You are the only one who can guarantee your results. I always trust that every client who comes into this container will get exactly what they are meant to out of it.

What's your refund policy?

Due to intellectual property being shared, there is a strict no refund policy.

I'm in a relationship - is this container still a good fit for me?

Yes! You'll be learning to embody your feminine energy on your own and in your relationship. You are 50% of your current relationship. As you shift, it will be so fun to see if/how your partner steps more into his empowered masculine and how juicy & polarized the dynamic can get. We will also be covering how to have empowered and healthy conversations to keep intimacy building and make sure you feel seen and heard - pivotal communication skills to build a healthy, chemistry-filled relationship.

Do I get to keep this course access? Or do I have a limited time with the course material?

As a member of our program, you will have exclusive access to all course content and your personalized portal for one full year. During this time, you can revisit the materials, track your progress, and engage with the resources at your own pace. After the one-year period, access to the content and portal will no longer be available. Be sure to take full advantage of the program during your access period!

What times are the calls?

Once enrolled, you’ll fill out a survey noting the times that work best for you for our Q&A calls.

While I can't promise it will be the exact time, I will work to find a time that works best for the group. AND - I would encourage you to prioritize the call times for yourself - you deserve this time for yourself. If you cannot make some sessions, don't worry - the recordings will be uploaded to your course platform within 48 hours post call.

What if the time the calls are scheduled isn’t a time that I can make?

No problem, the recordings of the new modules and the Q&A’s will be uploaded within 48 hours after the call! And, you can still submit your questions for the Q&A and I will answer them on the recordings for you to watch whenever it is convenient for you.

Will there be 1:1 support?

Yes, you'll have access to a 30-minute 1:1 kick-off call. This is your time to share anything to start your journey. Then, the Q&A zoom calls are designed to answer all your questions with the group! And, often on the calls we do hot-seat coaching, so you have direct access to my support on these group zoom calls.